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How to attain sexual satisfaction while social distancing

By Bukky Richards Friday, June 26, 2020 - 12:05
With a pandemic affecting almost every part of the globe, it has become necessary to keep your distance from other people - and that comes with its unique challenges.

With Covid-19 spreading with so much vigour, having a healthy sexual appetite or very high libido can be a tad problematic if you don't cohabit with your partner. With the times we are in, it is not easy to leave the house, as usual, to meet someone or to invite them over.

You have to actually avoid contact with anyone whose movements you can't possibly monitor. And eliminate body contact as much as possible.

But it's a new age and technology and invention have given a helping hand and devised many other ways to bring yourself sexual satisfaction, that feels almost like being with someone else.

For satisfying yourself in the exact ways you wish to, there are various methods to look at. Some will be highlighted below;

  1. Get acquainted with your body. It's always advisable to learn your body, get comfortable with yourself, so you know what areas to focus on, to give yourself utmost satisfaction.
  2. Create a mental image of the things you enjoy. You can use porn and search specific categories that have your kink, so you have a solid image to use.
  3. Find toys that stimulate you, according to what you enjoy. (Below this list, the types of sex toys you can stimulate yourself with, will be highlighted with a little insight into their functions)
  4. Assume a position you know you like being in, when you're with someone. It helps the mental image you have created and can give the impression that you're with a person you like or want to have sex with.
  5. Feel free to experiment. And use lube when necessary. Lube is very important where there's no one to do foreplay with and you're using certain toys.
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Toys are gold!

For satisfying yourself, there are some sex toys that will give you the feeling of being with someone else or just prepare you for the main event. These are the most effective ones;

  • Clitorial Vibrators: These, as the name implies, do the job of stimulating the clitoris. Their vibrations can be altered, to suit your preferences.
  • Cock Rings: These are mainly used on large penises as they squeeze the blood vessels and make them more sensitive. Some cockrings vibrate, so they can be used on dildos to make them vibrate while being used, like penetrative vibrators.
  • Clit Suction: These give the impression of your clitoris being sucked. They work best with lubricants.
  • Rabbit: This performs two functions; it gives penetrative stimulation while pleasuring your clit at the same time.
  • Dildos: This stimulates penile penetration and can be used by both sexes. There are some that can be stuck to a wall or floor.
  • Prostate Toys: These are specifically for stimulating/Pleasuring the prostate. They are usually slender and curved like G-spot stimulators.
  • Glass Penetrative Toys: The important function of these is they can be heated or cooled, so the temperature can be tailored to suit your needs and they can be used on any sensitive spots on your body.
  • Butt Plugs: They are useful for anal play stimulation and they also train your sphincter to relax, in preparedness for penile penetration.
  • Anal Beads: These are also for anal stimulation, like butt plugs, but they give a different, fuller fill.
  • Wand Vibrators: The vibrations they give are very intense and they can also be used to stimulate other sensitive parts, apart from penetrative stimulation.
  • Toys for G-Spot Stimulation: There are a variety of these. They are usually curved and are specifically designed to reach your g-spot.
  • Silicone Vagina: This is made with material that feels like a vagina and can be used better with lube.

Remember, you can go as many times as you want if you're alone. The only energy that matters is yours. Enjoy social distancing.

 

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