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A straight guy's guide to getting out of the friend zone

Love Nwantinti
The infamous friend zone is territory that many young romantics dread.
You develop feelings for a dear friend and you think to yourself, “We already have a great connection as friends, e fit work between us.”
Low key it seems like the perfect plan and almost feels destined. After consulting a few other friends (who probably encourage you) you declare your undying love to your dear friend – but she just doesn’t feel the same way.

Dealing with negative emotions in relationships

Love Nwantinti
Picture a box. A really tiny box. You can make it whatever colour you want. Every relationship has a tiny box just like that. It is a box everyone in a relationship creates unconsciously. It is filled with negative emotions caused by our partners like anger, shame or hurt. It is also filled with negative perceptions of our partners.