Saminu Machunga

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Talk dirty to me

Ways to Make Love
Aisha and Wale just celebrated ten years of marriage. And it has been a wonderful ten years. There was no disagreement that they could not squash in 30 minutes. Even though they got along so perfectly, their sex life had begun to feel like a bore, a routine, an obligation.

How to respond to being ghosted

Meeting Someone
It has been six days. Six days, and on every day since Mike anxiously checked his phone anytime it vibrated, hoping it was her.

What is a throuple?

Happy Relationships
A “throuple” is a romantic relationship between three people. For many that were raised to believe a successful relationship must be monogamous, this may be a hard concept to wrap your head around.

20 first date questions to help you know them better

Meeting Someone
Ask and it is given. The only foolproof way to get to know someone is by asking them questions - unless you can read minds.

A straight guy's guide to getting out of the friend zone

Love Nwantinti
The infamous friend zone is territory that many young romantics dread.
You develop feelings for a dear friend and you think to yourself, “We already have a great connection as friends, e fit work between us.”
Low key it seems like the perfect plan and almost feels destined. After consulting a few other friends (who probably encourage you) you declare your undying love to your dear friend – but she just doesn’t feel the same way.

How to tell if he really loves you

Meeting Someone
We so often hear that action speaks louder than words, and this is especially true when it comes to matters of the heart. Love is one of the most powerful emotions we experience so it’s no surprise that people sometimes utter the words ‘I love you’ without truly meaning it. So how can you tell if your man really loves you?